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Smut Talk from Hustler's First Female Pornographer. Stories from the Kat Slater memoir, real sex and porn Q&A, and a free for all from anyone who wants to post their own sexual fantasies, questions, thoughts, in a judgement-free zone.
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- Kat Slater
- I grew up in the first generation post Women’s Liberation and The Sexual Revolution. We were expected to be everything a man could, with mothers who had been everything a man wanted. My story is that of a well-educated woman in her thirties, discovering her own sexuality while breaking through the glass ceiling of pornography. I directed over thirty videos for Hustler beginning with scenes for "Barely Legal." I went on to direct the successful couples porn "Young Sluts, Inc", before embracing gonzo with "Cum Swappers" and truly understanding the male fantasy. I finished my tenure at Hustler as their VP/Creative Director of Hustler Video, running the video department for Larry Flynt. Through it all, I brought what I learned on set to my own bedroom, and what was in my own bedroom to the set. I am a woman who's career allowed me to explore my sexuality so completely. These are my stories. And the questions you have and continue to pose along the way. Please feel free to push all of us, in posting comments and questions.
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My biggest recurring masturbation fantasy is something I tend to feel guilty about. I have a girlfriend, but I also have a really close plutonic friend of the opposite sex who has had some bisexual encounters in her past. I think you know where this is heading. In my fantasy, my plutonic friend and I are making love to my girlfriend. My girlfriend is the center of attention in this, but my friend's naked body is at times pressed against me. My friend's name is Sandra, and my girlfriend is Jessica. Sandra and I are not directly having sex, but we are holding hands and putting our arms around each other while Jessica is alternating between us.I kiss Jessica's mouth after she is eating out my friend Sandra. In this fantasy, Sandra also sometimes has a strap-on that she uses on Jessica. She is doing Jessica doggie style while I'm underneath Jessica in a 69 position, licking Jessica's clit while the strap-on goes in and out. I can smell Sandra's pussy as she works Jessica over. There is no clear end to the fantasy, but sometimes I cum inside my girlfriend. Other times with this fantasy, my girlfriend Jessica is sucking my cock and Sandra's toes at the same time. As I'm getting off in real life, I imagine Jessica stroking my cock in groove of Sandra's first two toes as I am cumming. Kat, I feel guilty about this fantasy because I view it as betraying Sandra's friendship. It feels almost like incest or something. She was in a really bad auto accident a few years ago, and I helped take care of her when she got home from the hospital. I had no sexual thoughts about her then. I just felt more like a big brother. I feel it also betrays Jessica, because this fantasy is portraying her more as an object. Jessica is an awesome person, but she is definitely not into girls. I'm not secretly "in love" with Sandra, because I've had chances to date her in the past and passed. As you can imagine, I would never mention this fantasy to either one of them...
That's a great fantasy clintp! Actually got me excited.
It is always such a curiosity to me that one partner feels they can't share a "fantasy" with the other partner. And in particular that one partner thinks the other partner thinks there should only be fantasies about each other. Sex and Love are two different things, after all. Of course, I realize this is a fantasy you would probably like to make a reality if all parties where complying. And the reality of this one could make the others uncomfortable. However, I don't think you should feel any guilt over the current status of this fantasy. I don't see Jessica as an object. The way you've painted it, I see her as very much a part of it. And any girl with half a brain knows when her male "friend" is fantasizing about her. Don't worry, there's no betrayal of friendship here.
You're into your girlfriend, Jessica. And Sandra's probably a great girl with a hot body. I've never really seen a boy/girl friendship which doesn't have some element of sexual attraction, from at least one of the two parties. And you're not brother and sister.
I would suggest either always keeping this a fantasy and just enjoying that wonderful pleasure. Or, if you do get to a place you feel you need to explore this... don't be afraid to do so. Communication between lovers is so important, and what keeps the spark alive. Who knows, you may even discover that Jessica has some naughty fantasies of her own. The key to sharing is realizing the importance of reassurance for both parties, and if you and Jessica love each other, that should come easily.
Thanks so much for posting this sexy little fantasy for all of us! Definitely loved the feet on your cock part! Gia Paloma was always great at giving an incredible foot-job. That girl must have some strong feet, because I swear Randy Spears was about to blow his load right then and there. Love the thought of another girl giving head over this whole scenario!!!!!
Speaking of Randy Spears:
The greatest length of footage in my porn collection is from the movie "Gash". It was when Randy and Mr. Pete were dp-ing Lauren Phoenix (oh my god), and you slip two fingers in with Randy's penis in Lauren's ass. Then you start saying "lets fuck her together". Its the hottest thing I've ever seen in a movie. By far.
Oh, I love Lauren Phoenix and Randy Spears!!!! And Mr. Pete gets me so hot and bothered. But, Pete wasn't in that scene. It was two others, along with Randy. Randy and I always had a lot of fun together. And yes, in Lauren's ass was definitely one of those moments... with the pony tail... oh, that was a great scene to shoot!!!!
Though, a lot happened on Gash. It was really a movie where I was definitely baring my soul. It was also shot at the same time that asshole, Mark Kramer, was giving me major grief as their VP/Creative Director. I'm not one to gripe, but this was one moment where I was fucked. The editor threw some shit together... thank goodness our uncut version was decent. I then wanted to re-work some things, free of charge, which only makes the movie better for all. And after many hours, for both the editor and me, making perfect cuts throughout, Mark released the unpolished movie, just to fuck me, because he knew I cared about this.
Regardless, I was really happy with that Lauren Phoenix scene, which as her first three-on-one. And, that movie will always mean a lot to me... my heart was definitely there when making it, and was only the beginning of what I wanted to do.
My Kat Slater fantasy:
Ok, so it was bound to happen, since I now kind of know what you look like.
I come over to your house so you can show me some landscape photographs you've taken. (weird, huh?) One thing leads to another, then you and I are both on the couch watching the movie Frida. Salma Hayek's hot sex scene comes on, and both of us start rubbing ourselves. You put the dvd player into A-B repeat mode, and we both start masturbating, our faces getting flushed, our hearts racing. You are/were wearing cut-off sweat pant shorts and a tank-top. You stop for a second to go into your bedroom, and you return with a small dildo. As you go back to work on yourself, you moan "what did I miss?" You're quite the comedian. You are positioned to my right and I take ahold of your left hand with my right. Our hand grasp becomes tight, and I can see the veins bursting out of the top of your hand. You whisper "I'm almost there" a few times, and I speed up, hoping for the simultaneous climax. You come first, your grip like a vice, and your back arching. I can feel the orgasm rip through you. At this point, its too much for me to take, and I come harder than I ever have in my life. A few squirts hit your leg, and you say, "oh fuck" as you pull your leg away. We both start laughing, then we go into the kitchen for paper towels and spray cleaner. After we've cleaned your coffee table, carpet, and your leg, we go back into the kitchen for chocolate. We then snuggle up on the couch and watch the rest of the movie, with a post-chocolate, post-orgasm buzz all over us.
This fantasy is not without history. One time in college, this guy friend, who was bi-sexual, was always trying to get me to masturbate with him while watching porn. I'm definitely not homophobic, but I never did it. I was still friends with the guy, I just didn't want to dodge his jizz missiles. But since then, I've always thought it would be really incredible to masturbate with a woman, or even two women. Part of the fantasy is that the woman be sort of "out of my league", and not necessarily interested in me as a lover. Its a strong fantasy because it could never happen in real life. Of course a lover, spouse, or "professional" would do this, but never a hot, neutral aquaintence/friend.
Clint, I'm with you on the masturbating with another fantasy.
I have put this one into action with a friend actually. Well, an ex-boyfriend, who is a dear friend. We had been watching movies all night on his sofa... a double feature, with him stroking my arm, hand, thighs, and some heavy kissing. I didn't want to have intercourse, but was very aroused, as was he. So I ended in my panties, rubbing my clit, and he naked, on his knees, with his legs spread over mine, jerking himself. We could look into each others eyes, we could kiss, and I could easily not only watch what I was doing, but that beautiful fully erect cock right in front of me with a strong male hand wrapping itself around it. He could see everything, and I was laid out for him, ready to take that pop shot wherever he pleased. It was the best masturbating with another moment I had ever had.
I have found it works so well when the man is up higher than the woman. Provided that suits the dominant/submissive desires of those involved. Personally, I like to be submissive and am drawn to men who like to be dominant. So, a little elevation really does wonders for me!
I would think there would be someone in your life with whom you could share this fantasy. Though last time I read your post you said you have a girlfriend. And I'm really anti-cheating or lies. I'm much more into those involved all talking/sharing, and finding a comfort zone which works for everyone in ways to play out fantasies.
But, if you were ever single, and you found yourself attracted to a girl who was still just a "friend" or someone you recently just met... this may be a fun way to start. It keeps the actual first time penetration still a fantasy, may set her at ease if she's not yet sure she wants to go "all the way", and could be a great moment to share in all those fantasies of things you would love to do with/to one another down the line.
If you wanted to explore this fantasy, and with your girlfriend. You could also try a little role playing. Start the night out "picking her up"... ask her to dress up like someone else... maybe like her fantasy vixen even if that's a good Catholic girl. A wig can always be fun. Ask her if she wants you to dress up differently. Seduce her to your sofa. And let the fantasy play out from there. Oh, maybe don't even tell her the entire fantasy... just the beginning... of picking-up one another as if you've never met before. Then, keep the rest to yourself as you play it out with this "new girl."
Sorry... was getting into the fantasy myself. Anyway, I'm sure there are all sorts of ways of exploring this one. Great fantasy. So simple, yet a little naughty. Fun!
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