Sunday, August 17, 2008

Q&A Do the girls really cum in porn?

Dear Queen of Porn,

Do chicks in porns ever orgasm?  I've seen enough to know that it looks like they are faking it.  Is it not professional or something to actually cum on camera or are they just desensitized?  I like the amateur home movies when you can tell that a woman is really into her man's cock.  The honesty is much more erotic than a gang banged cum belching road whore who can't get off.

Honest Abe

Honest Abe,

They rarely cum.  I once shot a b/g scene where the two were so into one another, near the end of the movie, they were really fucking.  My camera operator turned to me and said, "We're shooting no-core."  He was all confused and thought we should stop rolling because of this.  I told him, "Keep shooting."  You couldn't see much in hard-core, and yet too much for soft core.  But, they were really fucking and really into it and it was one of the few times I was really getting off behind the camera.  I'm with you.  

But, the sexual gymnastics the girls have to perform to give great hard-core lends little to really being comfortable and thus in the ripe mood for an orgasm.  I agree with you... love some of the real amateur stuff... and Japanese Animation porn for similar reasons. But, much of the amateur porn sucks in not being able to really see what's happening.  There are few movies both amateur and pro-am, where you can really see all and also get a great feel the girl is truly into it.  And these go down in great porn history in my opinion.  

There is no doubt the professional porn gives the best shots.  But, just imagine for a moment fucking in front of people you don't know, with all the pressure mounting of actually cuming, so the wardrobe girl, make-up artist, and everyone else can get home at a decent hour.  FYI... this is why real porn studs are only a very few stable.  So, one would think it is best to watch the amateur stuff where it's just a couple and their camera.  But, my biggest mistake in the beginning was shooting couples.  They generally don't fuck as well on camera as two people who don't know one another as intimately and just want to get it on with one another.  The reason is because the boyfriend/husband doesn't want to "hurt" his girl in a very vulnerable situation for her.  Thus, his more timid approach while on camera, leaves her equally going through the motions.  Also there's a lot of amateur stuff which really just gives me the feel it's some guy and a girl who figured they would make some loot in putting their homemade porno on YouPorn.  Any which way... the very best is when the people in front of the camera really want to fuck each other and have at least some good sense of how to shoot or are comfortable with their pornographer.  It's every bit the reason why I embraced gonzo, which keeps the group small and the emphasis on fucking as opposed to glitz and glamour.  

It's really not so much that the girl isn't into the guy's cock. Pornographers do try to line up people who want to fuck one another, and with the right casting you will find a great scene in the professional line-up of porn.  But, it's just that the girl has a lot of other things on her mind the bigger the set and the greater the pressure.  

At the end of the day, there's nothing like going home to your lover and fucking her/his brain's out sans camera.  That's generally where the best honesty lies.  

Kat 

2 comments:

clintp76 said...

For some reason, it always seemed that Cytherea (sp?), the squirting actress, was having real orgasms. She was always kind of shaking, and looking like she was going to pass out.

Kat Slater said...

Squirting is not the same sensation as an orgasm. It does feel pretty damn good, and certainly looks great on tape, but no real orgasm. Shaking and looking like you're going to pass out is generally the fabulous acting ability these girls have. I wasn't on all of Cytherea's shoots, so I couldn't tell you for sure, but I do know she's very good with the shaking and passed out look. She's a girl who does really get into it. And that's a great thing! But, to have a real orgasm is a whole other story.