Q&A Does Size Matter?

Kat,

Does size really matter?

Your Average Guy

My Average Guy,

Yes.  But, before you become disheartened... size matters for the right size girl.  We've heard it before this way... "the perfect fit."  Just as men are built differently here, so are women.  Some women just can't take a twelve inch cock.  I say this having loved my ex-boyfriends twelve-inches. But, my girlfriend's sister had had the same cock, and she couldn't stand it this big.  I've found around seven inches to be the norm in personal experience.  I've also found anything within the "norm" range to be quite satisfying, provided you know how to work it.  I've also made the mistake of shooting a hot girl who would only fuck her boyfriend, who just happened to have a pencil dick.  It looked absolutely terrible on tape, and she NEVER convinced me it felt any better.  Though, that was probably because they were both new to porn and worried about performance.  If you happen to be below "average", I would simply suggest... make up for it in other ways.  

And this is where we get to what you've probably heard before... it's how you know what to do with it.  Women are emotional creatures.  A great lover does not need a huge cock.  If he has one, and it's not too big for his chosen girl, he probably doesn't need to work as hard.  But, if it's not as big as she would have liked it... it's similar a woman who is incredibly sexually exciting capturing the intellect and the spirit, but perhaps is not the most model-beautiful.  Turn her on in other ways than simply huge cock standing at attention, and it really doesn't matter.  

I can't tell you the number of times my boyfriends have worried about me having seen some of the biggest cocks around.  But, how many times have I worried I didn't come in a super-model package?  When I became comfortable with my seeming imperfections, because I became well aware of what truly made me unique and special and loveable, my non super-model status no longer mattered to those who mattered to me.  In other words... size does matter, but it's not the only thing which matters.  And it's not the most important thing which matters.  (I did, after all, break it off with my twelve-inch boyfriend for reasons much more important than size.)  Confidence is most attractive to both genders.  I'm not talking about cocky, but confidence.  It does seem that twelve inches or a super-model body can naturally give one confidence in our world.  But, there are other ways to achieve the same thing.  Learn it and own it.  That's what matters most.  

Now, if you're a man with a cock bigger than most, like my ex was with this sister to my girlfriend... be aware.  Just because you have a big one which matches the porn studs in the movies, doesn't mean your chosen girl is going to want that.  There were so many times the girls on set complained because the guy's penis was too big.  You never saw this, because it's what happened between those cuts in the movie.  She was "acting", after all.  If "acting" is not what you're seeking, you may want to realize you have a very large penis and to simply move forward with caution.  Again... just like my super-model girlfriends who seem to often scare off the men from making advances toward them, you may want to learn just how deep you can thrust for starters.  When the girl's relaxed, because she knows she can trust you to not hurt her, her body will actually open more and more for you.  Take it slowly, and she'll eventually get there... to take it all.  

As you can see... yes, size does matter.  But that doesn't mean you don't have to make it the perfect fit.