Sunday, August 31, 2008

Wag The Doggy

How many women knew their puffy vagina lips actually showed so plumply while they're bent over in doggy?  I didn't have a clue, even after shooting many scenes, until I finally decided I was no longer afraid to take a very honest look.  All that time, in personal experience,  I had thought the guy was able to just "find it", and why on earth does he just want to look at the back of my head?!  Well, there "it is", and he's hardly looking at the back of anyone's head.  

Some women do have issues with doggy.  I think much of this is because this is the one position where women share very little of the same visual with men, and hence have a hard time relating.  Yes, men are generally more visual creatures, and women are generally more emotional.  But, I've always found women, even with all their lovely emotion, simply want to understand their man.  Guys, you can get out the video camera or digital if your woman will allow it, to show her, even hitting the erase button after, if it makes her more comfortable.  Or, you could try to describe it in true "Venus" terms, which is, "It's the equivalent to what you see when you look down when I'm having sex with you in missionary." And if it is the truth, remind her that all that boils down to is "Me and you completely inside one another."  

And girls... arch the ass.  It's called "The S-curve."  You will NEVER look better!  Look back at your guy if you want now and then.  But, in all honesty, this is one of those positions where you keep the S, you know your man is loving you, and you can bury your head in the pillow and enjoy a little moment with Rafael Nadal for all that matters.  

That said, I have found this position work best for both sexes if kissing is not forgotten now and then.  

4 comments:

clintp76 said...

I'm not a big fan of doggy as far as penetration. I do have something that usually drives women crazy, though. I like to eat my girlfriend out while she is in doggy position with her hips fairly high in the air, near the edge of the bed. I'm standing on my knees next to the bed, and I have my arms reached around her hips, giving the sides of her slumped over back and waist a circular motion massage as I'm eating her out. Any time I've done that for a woman, she will almost want that 24/7. I'm going to end up with lockjaw and carpal tunnel syndrome at the same time. I've tried to tell other guys to do this with their women, but no one does. It seems kind of strange, like a secret that I only know.

Kat Slater said...

Hmmm..... I had the munching muffin done in doggy as you say, but not with the massage. So, the massage is not on any private parts? Simply to relax and feel good while your tongue does all the work on the Vagina? Sounds great! And if a guy were really into doggy, certainly a great building into it. Thanks so much for sharing!!

clintp76 said...

Kat,
I don't know if you watch porn these days, but you have to see Belladonna's "Girl Train". There is a scene with Belladonna, Brianna Love, and Sasha Grey that has to be seen to be believed.

Kat Slater said...

Free porn was one of those perks of my job, so I haven't actually purchased porn in a while. But, it sounds like I'll have to buy "Girl Train".... Belladonna always knows how to fuck the ladies, and if this one is even more OTT than her other stuff... have to check it out. Thanks for the suggestion!